Power Struggle!

It's the first Woman Wednesday on the "To Love A Man" blog, and our first topic from the ladies came from @CrackNtheFlesh via Twitter and she wrote:

": ) Let's talk about the power struggle in a relationship? Specifically with an outspoken, successful woman."

(The smiley face was included when she submitted her topic. I thought that was cute! HA!)

Now I know this is great beauty shop buzz talk, so we are gonna get straight to it!

Me personally, I don't have a problem with a powerful woman...it's sexy! Most men would verbally agree, but a large percentage of them could be lying. We won't talk about the fake males...let's focus on the REAL MEN!

Like I said, a powerful woman is a sexy thing! Women were put on the earth to keep men on their toes and challenge our intellect. We need the woman in our relationship for moral support and know how to take charge in our absence (Like the Spartan wife from the movie "300"! She was a QUEEN B!).When things get rough, money is tight, etc...we need our lady to challenge our thinking. "Why wouldn't it be more productive to go down this avenue of business versus investing your money here?" <---Statements like this? COMPLETE TURN ON!!!

But here's the flip side

Because women are successful, outspoken (and even make more money than her man) think they are a boss, they subconsiously believe that they wear the pants in the relationship. I'm not saying be timid and quite like a good little house wife....what I am saying is let your man BE THE MAN! If he can't handle that title, he don't deserve you.

I will take the same example from the movie in "300". The wife knew that war was wrong, and against the law. But she believed in her man, and supported him 100%, and used her "Success and Outspokeness" (as @crackntheflesh put it) to use for the good of her husband's cause. She did not try to dominate the relationship, and hold over his head "I'm a Queen! I make my own money! We can get seperate accounts!!!". This does absolutally nothing for the relationship!


There's my input! Ladies, feel free to converse about the subject in the comment box! Tyrone has left the Beauty Shop on Woman Wednesday!

Make sure you follow @crackntheflesh on Twitter!

You Are What You Act!

@shittalky on twitter made a comment stating

"Men walk around this bitch like just because we over the age of 18 that we are men.. Umm.. NO.. NOT EVEN"

I think this is a great way to start off Man Mondays....talk about ourselves first! (Hopefully the Women follow the example!)

Well let me just say that Derek (@shittalky) is not gay. This comment was a follow-up from earlier stating

"U should treat me like a queen cuz I'm a woman. No silly ho.. I should treat u like a woman cuz u act like one"

But I just chose to focus around the male subject. There are a lot of males that think JUST because you have a driver's license and you are old enough to buy cigarettes/alcohol that you're a man. Uh-uh! Men have responsibilities that are managed and taken care of BEFORE they need to. Men prioritize! MEN WEAR A DAMN BELT! ahem.....excuse me. I was ranting..

But seriously, a real man isn't afraid to open up to a woman and reveal his emotions...AND a real man knows how to be authoritative in his house hold/relationship without putting his hands on a woman (and going back a couple of posts....that means that women don't try to be the man by putting their hands on their man. Don't act like a nigga, you won't get hit like a nigga!) A man is a good listener. He knows how to receive information, and act accordingly...not react ignorantly.


All of these things make a man! A GOOD man at that! And if you have more to add, please feel free to comment! Follow @shittalky and @tyronehydraulic on Twitter!

Date Night!

I apologize to those that were following my blog posts, it's been a crazy productive year already! Which is why I'm setting up a date for you all to get some love wisdom! Here we go!

Man Monday's - Men, here I will be addressing everything from our point of view based on any questions or comments I get. If there aren't any, then I will simply make up a topic. Feel free to send me something you want to address: a situation, answer a question about women, etc! The floor is open, it's poker night, we got beer, and the conversation is about to get really barbershop!

Women Wednesday's - Ladies, we all know what you talk about in the salon (yea....we do) how about you actually get a man's perspective and stop listening to your bitter, single best friend Tracy! (HAHAHA!!! Sorry, had to do it) Ask you questions and get the insight from someone who has read a book or two on it. Tonight, it's the Dr. Phil Show: Home Edition!!!


If you want to submit a question to me, you can message me at any of these places WITH THIS SUBJECT: "Dear Tyrone"

performerproducer@yahoo.com
http://www.facebook.com/createhydraulic

or follow and send me a Direct Message on Twitter:
@TyroneHydraulic



See you on your respective date!