Monday, January 10, 2011

Activate Affection

"Fellas,there's nothing wrong with showing alittle affection to your lady in public. Be proud,show her off,hold hands & hug" (bought to you by @realmenquotes via twitter)
The problem is that it was never taught. Sorry ladies, most men didn't get this lesson as a child/teen....to be able to show their mothers and girlfriends affection. This typically doesn't come naturally for a man (Though there are rare cases) so if you're looking for more intimate moments from your man, make it a teachable moment. When you're in line at the movies, grab our arms and wrap them around you yourself...show us how and when to do it...or else we won't know, and you'll keep telling your friends "I wish he would hold me more".

Men, don't be so shy about this. Ladies often think you're embarrased to touch her in public, so you're embarrassed OF her...which we know is not true. Lean in for a random kiss to make your romance spontaneous and unexpected! (not while she's talking though...that's just stupid! LOL) Make her feel comfortable and protected. I had a girlfriend who's palms sweated really easily (it was kinda gross, and she knew it) but I endured it because she liked walkin and holding hands. Yes...I know it's gay, but I'm sure she don't like cooking for your ass either! A minor price to make your queen happy.

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